仅当新值不为null时，才在DUPLICATE KEY UPDATE上合并两个表

INSERT
INTO    table1
SELECT  * FROM    temp  
ON DUPLICATE KEY UPDATE
  table1.tel = coalesce(temp.tel,table1.tel),
  table1.fax = coalesce(temp.fax,table1.fax)

INSERT
INTO    table1
SELECT  * FROM    temp  
ON DUPLICATE KEY UPDATE
  table1.tel = coalesce(values(tel),tel),
  table1.fax = coalesce(values(fax),fax)